One bad thing about Asian in general, we can't talk straight especially when it comes to criticsm. I'm not talking about those critics that do nothing other than harm. We see jerks and bitches who give bad comments out of nothing just because they are emotionally unstable when they see other people is doing better than them. What I'm saying here are those constructive negative feedback.
This happens a lot when it comes to good friends. Especially those hardcore chinese educated people I see around me. Even they know their good friend is actually doing something wrong, they still give some excuses to their friend as encouragement. Yea, I said excuse, because it contains no truth at all often.
THIS IS JUST SO WRONG.
Doing this is not going to help your friend, it's guiding your friend slowly towards the path to the damned. And when it happens, you can add one more point to your accomplishment for pushing one person into the fire where there's no turning back.
At the same time, when we are not so good at giving bad comments, we are not so good at handling one. Again, we see a lot of people around who can't accept anything bad comments about them. They treat those people as enemy instantly.
This is just one big karma, we don't give bad comments leads to we can't accept one when it's out of good intention. When we know our friends can't accept bad comments, we don't give any. Everyone just listen to the good one, ignore the bads, and we go towards the path where we can never improve.
p/s: Don't give me bad comments, I can't handle it.
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
味道
昨天在超市买了一瓶你惯用的洗衣液。
回到家时迫不及待地把一堆累计了N年的衣服洗了起来。
衣服干了，
一股熟悉再不过的味道迎面扑来，让我久久不能释怀。
我把有你味道的衣服穿在身上，仿佛被庇护在你的温暖怀抱。。。
传说中幸福的味道，我想我找到了。
回到家时迫不及待地把一堆累计了N年的衣服洗了起来。
衣服干了，
一股熟悉再不过的味道迎面扑来，让我久久不能释怀。
我把有你味道的衣服穿在身上，仿佛被庇护在你的温暖怀抱。。。
传说中幸福的味道，我想我找到了。
Thursday, April 3, 2008
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Thinking of You
My life has become so colourful since after you came into it serendipitously.
I miss you so much J.
I miss you so much J.
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
4 weeks
It wasn't a sleepless night for me, I fell asleep quite easily. But I didn't sleep for long. Woke up just a couple of hours later and I'm not feeling sleepy.
4 weeks of what I would say is one of the most significant moment of my life. From getting know a person, until fell for her, until play the guessing what's on her mind, until everything is crystal clean and finally until everything is over.
Before starting to write again, it's needed to tell all the readers what's my view on God. I do believe there is a higher power out there who keeps on watching us. I do believe that this life is just a phase, we will one day complete the journey here and move on to the next, whether it's the afterlife or the reborn, I don't know. What I never believe is what any other religious says and describe about God. Anyway that's just my personal view and it's not a topic to debate here.
I also believe that I am given difficult situations as tests by the higher power above, to see how I respond to them. Whether I will respond to it with the faith I have or I will eating all my promises and taking a short cut.
At the same time, I also think He is really pushing the limit to see how far I can go. The situations get more and more difficult each time. There are times I surrender to it as I am really tired of it. There are times I stood strong and hold my words.
This time, it's one of the trickiest test given to me. There were more than one occasion when I almost give in, against all my principles to get what I want. But I didn't. I don't get what I want in the end, but I defended my pride. Although it's just something I promise myself and no one will even know I break the promise to myself, but I'm keeping it and I am glad for what I've done.
Will this move to a step towards a saint? No I don't think so. I just know that one day when I look back, I may regret for not doing something but I will feel proud because I keep that promise I made to myself.
The tests will keep on coming and I only expect them to be tougher each time. Maybe I can only get what I want after I passed all of them.
4 weeks of what I would say is one of the most significant moment of my life. From getting know a person, until fell for her, until play the guessing what's on her mind, until everything is crystal clean and finally until everything is over.
Before starting to write again, it's needed to tell all the readers what's my view on God. I do believe there is a higher power out there who keeps on watching us. I do believe that this life is just a phase, we will one day complete the journey here and move on to the next, whether it's the afterlife or the reborn, I don't know. What I never believe is what any other religious says and describe about God. Anyway that's just my personal view and it's not a topic to debate here.
I also believe that I am given difficult situations as tests by the higher power above, to see how I respond to them. Whether I will respond to it with the faith I have or I will eating all my promises and taking a short cut.
At the same time, I also think He is really pushing the limit to see how far I can go. The situations get more and more difficult each time. There are times I surrender to it as I am really tired of it. There are times I stood strong and hold my words.
This time, it's one of the trickiest test given to me. There were more than one occasion when I almost give in, against all my principles to get what I want. But I didn't. I don't get what I want in the end, but I defended my pride. Although it's just something I promise myself and no one will even know I break the promise to myself, but I'm keeping it and I am glad for what I've done.
Will this move to a step towards a saint? No I don't think so. I just know that one day when I look back, I may regret for not doing something but I will feel proud because I keep that promise I made to myself.
The tests will keep on coming and I only expect them to be tougher each time. Maybe I can only get what I want after I passed all of them.
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
4th day after election
Today is the 4th day after the election. The shocking result of the opposition parties swept away the BN and taken 5 states still fresh in everybody's mind.
A lot of people write to express how they feel and their opinion on this election. Just like the election results, most of the articles favors the opposition. I still can't calm down my emotion everytime i read those articles. I'm so proud of everyone who voted to the opposition this time as we are the people who felt we needed a change, we are the people who felt Malaysia need a breath of air and we are the people who didn't fear of them and drawn a cross at the opposition box.
The future holds so much hope now as I see. We are now marching to a healthier politic in Malaysia. Government need to always review themselves if they are performing well or else they know they will be pulled down from the seat when the next election comes. This is the real democracy that we just obtain after the country has been independent for 50 years and declare itself as a democratic country.
The vision 2020, the dream to be a developed country by year 2020. Maybe we still cannot achieve that in just 12 years time. But I believe we will be much nearer than if we were still under the same government for the past 50 years.
Lets us really live up to the name that we are among the most developed country in south east asia. Lets us catch up the leader Singapore and lets keep the rest of the south east asia countries tailing us.
A lot of people write to express how they feel and their opinion on this election. Just like the election results, most of the articles favors the opposition. I still can't calm down my emotion everytime i read those articles. I'm so proud of everyone who voted to the opposition this time as we are the people who felt we needed a change, we are the people who felt Malaysia need a breath of air and we are the people who didn't fear of them and drawn a cross at the opposition box.
The future holds so much hope now as I see. We are now marching to a healthier politic in Malaysia. Government need to always review themselves if they are performing well or else they know they will be pulled down from the seat when the next election comes. This is the real democracy that we just obtain after the country has been independent for 50 years and declare itself as a democratic country.
The vision 2020, the dream to be a developed country by year 2020. Maybe we still cannot achieve that in just 12 years time. But I believe we will be much nearer than if we were still under the same government for the past 50 years.
Lets us really live up to the name that we are among the most developed country in south east asia. Lets us catch up the leader Singapore and lets keep the rest of the south east asia countries tailing us.
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