这是我连续好几天,每天每首听超过十遍的歌,它们都有一个共同点 -- 遗憾不能和爱的人厮守到永久,很可惜。。。
就爱这些歌,是巧合??
李圣杰 -- 擦肩而过
梁静茹 -- 可惜不是你
彭家慧 -- 死心眼
杨宗纬 -- 听说爱情回来过
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
Monday, July 21, 2008
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
what you do isn't helping.
One bad thing about Asian in general, we can't talk straight especially when it comes to criticsm. I'm not talking about those critics that do nothing other than harm. We see jerks and bitches who give bad comments out of nothing just because they are emotionally unstable when they see other people is doing better than them. What I'm saying here are those constructive negative feedback.
This happens a lot when it comes to good friends. Especially those hardcore chinese educated people I see around me. Even they know their good friend is actually doing something wrong, they still give some excuses to their friend as encouragement. Yea, I said excuse, because it contains no truth at all often.
THIS IS JUST SO WRONG.
Doing this is not going to help your friend, it's guiding your friend slowly towards the path to the damned. And when it happens, you can add one more point to your accomplishment for pushing one person into the fire where there's no turning back.
At the same time, when we are not so good at giving bad comments, we are not so good at handling one. Again, we see a lot of people around who can't accept anything bad comments about them. They treat those people as enemy instantly.
This is just one big karma, we don't give bad comments leads to we can't accept one when it's out of good intention. When we know our friends can't accept bad comments, we don't give any. Everyone just listen to the good one, ignore the bads, and we go towards the path where we can never improve.
p/s: Don't give me bad comments, I can't handle it.
This happens a lot when it comes to good friends. Especially those hardcore chinese educated people I see around me. Even they know their good friend is actually doing something wrong, they still give some excuses to their friend as encouragement. Yea, I said excuse, because it contains no truth at all often.
THIS IS JUST SO WRONG.
Doing this is not going to help your friend, it's guiding your friend slowly towards the path to the damned. And when it happens, you can add one more point to your accomplishment for pushing one person into the fire where there's no turning back.
At the same time, when we are not so good at giving bad comments, we are not so good at handling one. Again, we see a lot of people around who can't accept anything bad comments about them. They treat those people as enemy instantly.
This is just one big karma, we don't give bad comments leads to we can't accept one when it's out of good intention. When we know our friends can't accept bad comments, we don't give any. Everyone just listen to the good one, ignore the bads, and we go towards the path where we can never improve.
p/s: Don't give me bad comments, I can't handle it.
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
味道
昨天在超市买了一瓶你惯用的洗衣液。
回到家时迫不及待地把一堆累计了N年的衣服洗了起来。
衣服干了,
一股熟悉再不过的味道迎面扑来,让我久久不能释怀。
我把有你味道的衣服穿在身上,仿佛被庇护在你的温暖怀抱。。。
传说中幸福的味道,我想我找到了。
回到家时迫不及待地把一堆累计了N年的衣服洗了起来。
衣服干了,
一股熟悉再不过的味道迎面扑来,让我久久不能释怀。
我把有你味道的衣服穿在身上,仿佛被庇护在你的温暖怀抱。。。
传说中幸福的味道,我想我找到了。
Thursday, April 3, 2008
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